The online dating guru mystery
This is particularly true if you’re encountering the same problems over and over again.The challenge is either with what you’re doing, the type of women you’re approaching, or both.The entire goal was to walk into a club and make out with a girl. PUA’s on the PUA forums would harp on this constantly.Mystery himself said “Mastery is four sets, four makeouts.” Being an intermediate guy myself at the time and not knowing any better, I said, “Okay, I’d better start making out with women on first dates! ” So on my online first dates, I started making out with every woman I met, right on the first date, with rare exception.(Interesting side note: many PUA haters and angry MGTOW’s are actually men who reached the beginner stage, but never stuck with any system long enough to achieve results, and have resided in the beginner stage for years and years.
I got a lot of makeouts, but I wasn’t getting laid. It was also during this time that I found some women would have an extreme amount of ASD on the second date when I tried to have sex with them, even though they were clearly attracted to me.
I’m sure other dating experts / PUA gurus will have definitions for these three terms that may look different from mine, and that’s fine.